Talking to My Daughter About Her Friend’s Transgender Parent

Posted on February 19th, 2017
Sharrona Pearl for Kveller 


Will she go by Ms. Lynne or Mrs. Lynne?

That was my oldest daughter’s first question when I told her that her friend’s parent was transitioning from a man to a woman, and transitioning from being called Max to being called Lynne. Ms. or Mrs. She wanted to get the naming right. And the pronouns weren’t the confusing part.

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Raise Game: Jewish and LGBTQ Heroes

Posted on February 12th, 2017
By Jay Stanton for MyJewishLearning.com


“Raise game.” When I began rabbinical school, a friend of mine who was already ordained offered me these two words of wisdom when I asked for advice about how to handle the instantaneous increased authority that comes even from studying to be a rabbi. The point is clear: when more is expected, more must be delivered. Grow into the shoes you’re being given.

A rabbi is our quintessential token Jew. Unlike other forms of tokenization, this one is voluntary. Those of us who pursue a rabbinic path do so by choice. We’re signing up to be tokenized and scrutinized. We volunteer to be knowledgeable representatives of our religious culture. The title “Rabbi” is a giant “ask me” button.

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The Secret Life of the Gay Jewish Immigrant Whose Company Sells Your Medical Information

Posted on February 5th, 2017
Adam Tanner for The Forward


We may think that what happens in our doctor’s office is confidential, but, in reality, our medical secrets fuel a multi-billion-dollar trade in patient information.

The leading firm in this opaque data trade is QuintilesIMS, a company founded as IMS in 1954 by an enigmatic German immigrant named Ludwig Wolfgang Frohlich. Today, the company that Frohlich founded is a titan in its field, worth nearly $20 billion.

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Meet the Lesbian Jewish Mom & Rabbi Who’s Leading a Congregation in Rural Maine

Posted on January 29th, 2017
Courtney Naliboff for Kveller


Not every small, rural Jewish congregation is lucky enough to have a rabbi. Temple Beth Israel, in Waterville, Maine—also home to Colby College—is lucky to have not just any rabbi, but Rav Rachel Isaacs, a community organizer, academic, mother, and deliverer of the White House Hanukkah celebration benediction in 2016. She’s also the executive director of the Center for Small Town Jewish Life, which fosters collaboration between small synagogues and colleges to provide Jewish programming and strengthen the Jewish community. I talked with her about being gay and Jewish in a small town, the differences between New Jersey and Maine, and the menschiness of President Obama.

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LGBT Inclusion: A Quest For Dignity

Posted on January 22nd, 2017
BY JEREMY NOVICH for The Jewish Week


I had the honor and privilege to staff the recent fourth annual Eshel Parent Retreat.  Eshel is a community and support organization for LGBT Jews and their families in the Orthodox community.  I spent Shabbat with more than 50 Orthodox Jewish parents of LGBT children, all of whom attended the retreat with tremendous courage and out of incredible love for their children. 

There was a wide range of comfort levels; one set of parents were happy parents-in-law of their daughter’s wife, and also proud grandparents. Another mother, whose child recently came out as gay, sat in pain wondering how she might have contributed to her child’s sexual orientation.  

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